Are there goals you can set in order to obtain for yourself some of these things you really want?

For what it’s worth..... Disregard my story if it doesn’t apply.... Years ago I was married to someone who made a lot of money. When I left and moved into a small little house I was so happy because everything was mine - earned and paid for by me - and it was all paid for because I don’t like to be in debt. I sacrificed and saved for everything and I was content. I thought it was heaven compared to living with my ex. I remember my stomach would turn just thinking about the lifestyle my ex lived and I was so happy to be free of it.

My ex still makes a lot of money and still has lots of really nice things... a lot more than I will ever have... but he’s up to his eyeballs in debt and there is no peace in his lifestyle. I wouldn’t go back to that... ever...

There is always a different side to things that we do not see. When it comes to jealousy... we are only looking at one side. It’s not the whole picture and it’s not usually entirely true.