Hi there. We decided not to get into another relationship until we have got the dissociative disorder under control. Our goal is to be authentic and we just don't feel able to be authentic when we can't "stay" and keep losing time and what not. We need to heal us first.

It has happened for us in the past that one or two parts have gone out on their own and had relationships and we don't want to do that again. This kind of decision isn't for everyone I suppose but it is what we need to do for us.