I am glad the convo with his dad went well. Hopefully, his father will keep that positive attitude towards you. Are there any children involved in all of this (even if not biological ones or grown ones)? Sorry I am still pretty new here and can’t keep straight on things like that.

Now that you told him what your actions are to be, I don’t think it is healthy for you to visit him in the hospital any more. Keep your distance from him as much as possible, and don’t let him get away with being such a jerk, especially after so recently giving him such good care, which had to be difficult. I had to care for my husband after back surgery right after our daughter turned 1 years old , and the first 2 - 3 weeks was not easy(it was about 6 weeks in total he needed help), and I still think it would have been extremely difficult even removing my daughter from the equation. Be done with him treating you that way.

I am glad to hear you are looking at other places to stay and seem to have at least found a possibility. Everyone here has given you excellent advice.

I am so sorry you have to go through this situation. It is something you don’t deserve. Stay strong