Lilah,

I think I met you in chat the other day and you asked me the basics. Some people here do not want to give their age or other vitals and that is just their business. Others will offer it up freely.

I am sorry if you are feeling picked on in chat. I'm glad you came here and posted about it. That's the first step in all of us trying to understand each other.

I hear that you are hurt and feeling really bad right now. I'm sorry you feel that way.

I wouldn't tell you to hush up about this. This is important enough to post and work out so fooey to anyone who says shutup.

I think when you asked me in chat you asked a/s/l and that can sometimes be mistaken as rude questions. I replied with a joke at first saying I'm older than dirt/I think I can remember what sex is/and living in a state of insanity ...........or something like that.

That's just my humour! I did not mean to offend you. And I think I did answer seriously soon thereafter. I know that I did not make fun of you in chat at any point. The above example is something that was my attempt at humour. Sorry if it fell flat.

Take care Lilah.