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Old Sep 12, 2018, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Calla lily12 View Post
My sibling suddenly turned on me and out of nowhere, accused me and my daughters of stealing from my mother. I was so shocked , at first I said nothing. Then I realized my sibling was a narcissist and doing his best to break me. He succeeded but at a later date, I not only stood up for myself and girls, but really let him have it. Maybe he heard me, maybe he didn't but I had my say. I was usually silent if accused of something cause I figured no one would believe what I had to say. This time, my sibling pushed me too far and I made sure he knew everything that was on my mind. It did feel better to an extent, but the pain of being accused never went away.
Wow I’m sorry that happened to you. Yeah I’ve met people like that. Yeah it is a relief when you say what is on your mind. Yeah that is another reason i freeze up as well, I feel like I would not be believed. But I am getting better at saying something because even if the person doesn’t listen or believe me, they can at least know that there is in fact another side of the story they are unaware of and should take it into consideration.