Hi ltlvt,

I felt comforted and somehow released when I see you replied with a long post. Cause you are in the process of healing, it starts with opening up, spilling it all out.. I didn't mean to judge you or anything of the sort, I was really hurt to see you kept on making yourself drown deeper and deeper... I just wanted to get you out. I respect your choice, and I highly respect your unreplaceable love to her. It takes a lot of courage to stick with one love and do not alter for whatever... You are a really strong man on this... I know you will find your way out at the least cost for yourself (financially and mentally, but money can be made again, to restore mental health is much harder).

What your counselor said made some sense to me, but I really don't know because I don't see the whole picture of your relationship with this woman. But it seems like the thing you need out of a love relationship, she can't give you. And do you see that she will be able to give you in the near future? If it's really a deadend, please try not to go any further... ok?

Thanks for being open-minded, and not get mad at my words. If you do need sometime to calm down and get some things done, we understand. We just wish the best for you... Please do come back from time to time, and let us know how you are doing.....

((((((((more hugs 4 u)))))))))))))

Best,
Toni

[i] What our mind can conceive and believe, it will achieve.