Sometimes they do, yes. They are obviously only interested in a sexual relationship or just sex. One guy did randomly message me the other night for the first time and asked me if I was single, which was annoying. I told him I was in a relationship, which is a lie, but if it stops guys from keeping on asking, then at the time it seemed like a good idea. But I don't like lying. They don't live in the same part of the world though so are unlikely to find out otherwise.

I don't reply right away now, no. The guy I originally made the thread about is still messaging me. He says it's fine that I just want to be friends but says things that make me wonder if that is the case. He said he would like to cook for me and he was thinking about me, to which I replied that I hoped he meant only as a friend. He replied that that was the case but I am not convinced. As soon as I shared a post of his today (I didn't notice he had posted it)he messaged me. I have turned off Messenger though so my status is not active.

I keep reminding him it's just friends but I am not sure that a guy would say he would like to cook for a woman unless he wanted more, and he said he was thinking about me which I don't think someone would say if they just wanted friendship. Whether he is testing out my response I don't know, but I don't answer him straight away and try to keep him at arm's length. It has got to the point where I get a feeling of dread when he messages me. So is not good.