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Originally Posted by golden_eve
The truth of the matter here with abusers: they relish in the pain they inflict upon another because they have been SO badly hurt themselves in life, that the only sense of power and control they feel in the world is to make others hurt as much, if not far MORE, than they already do.
Abuse is ALWAYS about power and control over another. And abusive people are NOT happy people. Abusers are deeply and inwardly miserable in their own skin and lives. They ultimately hate themselves, and want everyone else to feel just as miserable as they do.......
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Thanks for your post here Golden. I can't say I feel bad for the abusers. You'd think that if they were so badly abused that they would want to be good to others. Maybe that's why some of them take on professions bearing a title of caregiver/rescuer. A fake career for people out to hurt others.