me and my wife are both bisexual women. Before we got together we both dated men and women and our ex's are a mix of both genders. One difference between us is I've never had a male sexual partner before (for various reasons), while she has. Another major difference is I'm more attracted (sexually and physically) to women while she's usually more attracted to men. Just because we ended up in a same sex marriage doesn't change the fact that we're both bisexual women.

When it comes to celebrities and various attractions in our daily lives we still find different people from both genders attractive. For example, I've had the same crush on Cristina Scabbia for YEARS now! (I've even told my wife she's the only person I would ever leave her for and she says she totally wouldn't hold it against me if I did, lol.) And I also have the same strong sexual attraction towards Jason Momoa.

I've always had the philosophy that if it feels good and it doesn't hurt anyone enjoy it. I never spent much time caring about what others think or labeling **** when it doesn't need to be labeled (labels only seem to complicate things), but since I had my stroke 3 months ago I worry even less about things like that and worry about living life to the fullest (The type of stroke I had was a very rare kind with a very high mortality rate... so I'm extremely lucky to be alive). I wish I had better advice, but I feel you need to stop worrying about it and just enjoy it... whether it be with a man or a woman. Just my 2 cents is all.