Thanks for your support.
Yes, I agree, this thing seems to be a recurrent theme in termination stories on here. Yes, I told her I felt hurt that it seemed she wouldnīt call me or try to reach me if I suddenly didnīt show for a session. I even told her that my first T left me in a similar situation like this one!
And she goes about and does the very same thing.
My therory around this is that she felt I came to close and she couldnīt tolerate it. That I reacted to her hugs and warm way of being towards me by feeling a bit abandoned when she went on vacation and then she canīt handle that.
Also, as she's a psychosyntheis therapist Iīm not sure if sheīs educated to work with transference and feelings "under the surface".
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Originally Posted by feileacan
I'm so sorry, Sarah. Honestly, I don't understand what's wrong with those therapists?? I mean, how difficult it can possibly be to tolerate this stuff you are telling your therapists? So you said you would be upset that she wouldn't call. Why couldn't you be upset about it? What's wrong with that? I'm really terribly sorry. I think many people here in this forum have felt that you have progressed a lot (to some direction?) and I feel sad that now when you could really do some work, the therapist just backs off.
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