Thanks. Yes, what I believe has happened her is that she fostered attachment by giving me hugs and being kind to me and when I got "too" attached and afraid she´d leave me, she can´t handle that and chooses to end it all together.

I think this is too common and way too many clients end up where I am after reading a lot of posts here and elsewhere. I think many people talk about "your therapist isn´t your friend" but many therapists aren´t qualified enough to be aware of attachment going unhealthy.

When the attachment already has became unhealthy, too many T:s just dump their clients.


Also my T seems to think I´m dumb enough to believe she suddenly seen an "end" to her knowledge when I know it´s about she can´t handle me being too attached.