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Originally Posted by Xynesthesia
. . . So it was aggression that the T(s) and others rejected? . . .Maybe there are a few rare Ts who can handle literally everything a client can say to them, but I really believe that taking intense, persistent anger and aggression well is more an exception than anything else, from anyone, even Ts with all the training and experience. . .
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Yes, thanks, I do think you stated it well, that it was aggression that the T(s) rejected.
I "tried so hard" to "get in touch" with it and did not at all understand what effect it might have on others, because it was so distant and cut off.
If the T's could have recognized the problem and given me (the regular me, the "apparently normal part", to use the language of structural dissociation) a heads up -- that could have helped a lot. Maybe they didn't realize that the ANP is/was so in the dark about stuff.
Which is part of why I keep writing -- they hurt people a lot when they don't realize that.
Thanks for your understanding, and for writing about your experience. That helps gives me some clues about what to do and how to deal with this, in the future.