When you say you've been talking to her about women . Do you mean advice on a particular woman , or just women in general ? If it's the later , then she is probably being quite open on what would impress a woman from her perspective . So it would be easy to feel a connection to someone who is being so open and honest with you . If that would translate into a meaningful relationship in the long run is up for debate . You'll have to decide what your going to do , but if she is already in a happy relationship then it doesn't sound like a good idea and could make her unhappy . Which seems unfair seeing she has been so kind . But your the only one who knows the full circumstances .
For myself , I worked out trying to cut a friends grass regarding their girlfriend isn't such a good idea when I was 16 . He confronted me about it and I was apparently talking when I should have been listening ...so him and his brother knocked a few of my teeth out to explain their feelings on the matter . We still laugh about that at reunions . Oh and p.s. , the young lady forged a career in the armed forces before marrying an airline pilot and having three lovely kids . So she was the winner ...and didn't lose any teeth in the process .
Think long and hard before meddling in relationships .