Thank you. I wish I could realize the same. Every promise he makes I hang on to, I told him that I would allow him to be around in the beginning if he promised to go through the work of admitting the abuse and trying to change his ways. He was all on board.. until we started to talk about it. He got angry every time it was brought up, and there was never a 'right' time to talk about it. Even the most simple of promises.. he could not keep.