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Old Sep 15, 2018, 07:24 AM
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Originally Posted by rise13eyond View Post
i feel so like crushed by all the other alters and even the host. we don't know a lot about Kitty yet so no stuff there. but Sam, Beyond, and Kevin are all guys and they dont care about clothes at all! i just want to be different from them and get dressed up in something poofy and girly...but i cant. i want to meet people and be able to talk about me and what i like not just pretend to be Sam. i really want to express myself and not confuse people because they're used to seeing someone else. Sam doesnt want me to because he doesn't want anyone to know whats going on. and i kinda feel bad for him because he's already trans and none of his friends or family offline like that about him. its just not fair though. i don't want to be Sam I want to be me and i want everyone to know i'm me!
You know, we’re a lot like you....trapped in the wrong body and having to play by their rules....but mostly of because for safety reasons and the guys don’t want to get embarrassed. But it’s only fair that we girls get some out time to...so we worked out a schedule where the guys go to work and be public and we females get to do the home scene. Of course, we have to be somewhat presentable being that we live in an apartment building and own a dog that pees outside. We are much older now and dress clothes don’t mean so much, but we still like shaving and cleaning up this body....after all, someone has to clean up the messy body and apartment.

Guys are proud and never want to show a slight chance of weakness....

Have you asked them if they can let you have a scheduled bit of time to yourself that’s supervised at first? It’s a comfort level thing that takes them time to adjust, to. If they do...don’t go crazy at first and buy a bunch of dresses and make-up experimenting....we did and that turned into an inner fight that lasted a while....but a compromise was achieved with rules attached. Just have to approach it slowly and be sure to make sure if it’s okay with them if they do. (When we just front out of spite-we fight).

We get to go shopping, but have to try to act like a guy....so I get that...having to deal with all the looks are bad enough especially in this ape suit (omg that’s so funny!).

Anyhow....just got to ask. Have you tried?