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Originally Posted by Wild Coyote
I don't think you must go "no contact" in order to safely get yourself out of this relationship. I do think it's possible to remain firm and amicable. 
I have only gone no contact in break-ups when I have been being threatened. Sometimes, it's very helpful to process things with one another. |
Yes, this where we are I'd say.
Just a little update... I accepted a place to live and will probably move next weekend (depends on my helper's schedule -- yes, I found a helper at work-- yea!). BF is working on his path and it sounds like a positive one for him.
There's really only been one somewhat strained conversation. It was kind of an analysis of what problems there were. Everything else has been totally civil and/or kind.
Watching dvds last night --and had SO often happens -- we both noticed some totally obscure thing simultaneously. I will miss his companionship, no point denying it.