Like people here are saying, don't let him guilty trip you or manipulate you into helping him. He is NOT your responsibility... and how terrible are you going to feel about yourself IF you do help him, after he has abused you so badly?? Not so good. Your self esteem will suffer, your mental health will suffer. You're already suffering of being sucked dry from him. Tell him he needs to figure it out on his own. Let him do it himself. He will find a way. He's not helpless. You deserve to be on your own without an abuser attached to you as an appendage weighing you down. You already got out of the marriage. You should be entirely independent of him, except for when you have to deal with the kids together. Think of it that way.