I want you to consider what I am about to say. If you tell me that you disagree, I will respect that. I think the reasons you are coming up with for you to be the one to move out is just a rationalization for avoiding conflict. Having him stay there will only cost you more money. He would knowingly be taking advantage of you. Since you will not be there, he can invite women over for sex. How long do you expext this to go on? You would be funding his stay in your apartment. This would also include food, correct? He has to eat. Thusly he has absolutely no reason to leave. IMO drop him off at his father’s house, and then leave. Better yet, let the hospital deal with this.

I think once he is back in you home, it may become very difficult to evict him. He has a medical problem that may not permit him to fuction, for instance by holding down a job. So you may be considered as endangering his health when evicted. I would check up on this.

This is all I will say.