My husband has been diganosed with ADD, ADHD, bipolar disorder, and possibly antisocal personality disorder. On Dec,26 he came home manic wanting a divorce and I begged , and pleaded for him to stay. Not because he has been a good husband but because I fear for our childrens safety when they are in his care. I have good reason to fear, though i will not get into that now, but in Ca. he would get the children every other weekend. Our son is 9 and our adopted daughter is 22 months. I want him to get the help he needs, and I need help coping with this. He also drinks, though he wont admit to this problem. Where can we both get help?