I believe that a marriage can last forever. I also acknowledge that people change as do their wants and needs. Sometimes forcing it when it just isnt working isnt best for anyone.

I dont believe love is a choice. I still love people from years ago that I dont want to. My brain can not control my heart.

I believe hard times are a necessity of life, but good times could be equally enjoyed with out them.

I believe divorce is always an option. You should never feel like you are stuck. Be married because you want to, not because you feel like you have to.

For me having set expectations leads to frustration. I tend to go with the flow now.