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Old Sep 17, 2018, 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted by toughbird View Post
Do you think this relationship can work? Or do I cut my losses and go? Do I continue on with my life via giving him space?
you are the one that has to live with the decisions, we are not you so we can only make "assumptions" based on what you post.

example ...

I could say stay.... but for you and your life would that be the right thing for....you ........to do

I could say leave but again for .............you and your life..............would that be the right thing to do...

I live in america so that tells me that everyone must be free to make their own decisions. its not up to me to tell others how to live their lives and what they should or should not do......

only you can decide that based upon your own feelings and what you want to do....

Unless of course you were a minor or in a culture where your job, relationships and so on are up to the decisions of your culture or your parents...

but over all my suggestion is to take time to

sit down and decide what...........you...........want to do
decide what your own culture or religion dictates what and how you do things
decide what your own feelings are about this problem.

we can not make decisions for you because we are not you, we are not in your body going through your situation first hand. all we can do is make "assumptions" "guesses" based on what and how much you have decided to post.