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Who believes that marriage is forever, through thick and thin, the good the bad and especially the ugly?
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I belueve with tje RIGHT person that marriage can be for all our mortal life. Yes, there is alwaus good & bad, think & thin even when living alone. That us just life. HOWEVER I think when yiu have given a marriage every possible choice & it is creating a very bad situation (as in abuseive response to abusive actions even when only emotional not physical).....then there comes a time where calling it quits (divorve) is the best option. Broken beyond repair.
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Who believes that love is a CHOICE and not a feeling?
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Definitely a choice. I never allow my emotions to control my logic..has NOTHING to do with one's heart. Hearts don't have a brain or the ability to feel....it ALL comes out of the brain. Looking back at the beginning of my marriage I realize what he did to cause me to not respect him (thpughts or choices) was what kept love from ever growing as a feeling for him. If I had been capable of understanding those things at that age I would have known thete was no love or emotional connection....but growing up in the dysfunctional family I grew up in I had no concept of what love was or what it REALLY felt like.
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Who believes that hard times are what make the good times so great?
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true not just in marriage but in life itself even as a single.
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Who believes that divorce just isn't an option?
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It is not the first option.....but when all options have failed & things atebgettkng worse not better.....divorce may be the best option.