You aren't married? Why would you want to continue a relationship like this, you are getting a raw deal. It is not right he treats you this way and if you want to spend the rest of your life with him, i feel sorry for you as he is not treating you right. You are obviously not making this up, as you said you thought you were. What he is doing to you is real, if it was me i would run! There could be somebody else better for you, there a lot of fissh in the sea and some of them are actually loyal and nice.