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Originally Posted by nottrustin
It is very difficult. T had mentioned cutting back after a miscommunication which I did. It was really hard. But I made it work.
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I think for me it is better off I make that decision then him deciding it. I would be hurt and devastated if he cut me off.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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