Sorry that you and your T didn't connect. My previous T and I didn't connect because he randomly brought up the topic of masturbation when I said nothing to even cause him to think that.

I said something along the lines of, "My bed is messy because I fell asleep while I was doing something. Now there's crap all over my bed and I have to clean it up." Then he was like, "I need my bed clean so that I can masturbate. I can't have any distractions. So my bed is clean."

He was/is 33, so he wasn't an old, creepy dude. Just immature and dumb.