Yes, I'm sorry they're being so rude to as well, whispershadow. It really does sound like they're trying to control you, manipulate you, make you bend under their influence, and that's not good. Maybe tell them in a peaceful tone, in an assertive tone, not to speak to you in those ways, that it's hurtful and rude? You don't need to mention your MH issues if you don't wish to, but obviously they need to stop doing those things.