So what you do is you click "edit post" on your post, it will then come up with a screen, fill in the boxes where it says about deleting messages.
I can't do screenshots for fudge or toffee or anything else.
it should look like this:
To delete this message, check the appropriate option below and then click the 'Delete this Message' button.
Deletion Options Do Not Delete Message
Delete Message
Reason for Deletion:
Thread:
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