Well, I brought it up last night. He got defensive and accused me of being passive aggressive when all I said was that it made me uncomfortable. I asked if it didn't bother him at all. He snapped and said that it didn't. So I left it alone because essentially, it's not my cat and it's not my choice to change the cat's name, which is what I told him when he asked if we were going to "f*cking just sit in silence." I told him that I didn't have anything else to say considering how this conversation was going and I was about to get off of the phone.

He apologized for his behavior and explained he's very uncomfortable and that the name made him uncomfortable too, it's just that he didn't want to talk about his "dead ex-girlfriend". He explained that he didn't want to get into the reason why he wasn't comfortable with the name and proceeded to go along with the name. Which didn't make much sense to me. He could have just said no and we'd have moved on from it. I'm not attached to the name and I was just reading off of a list online.

I don't know. The issue has not resolved because I did not like his reaction of snapping at me and back-pedaling. I've been quite angry today. I don't know how to process this.