I am new to this and need support group. My husband has not been assessed as being bi-polar and I am trying to get him to a mental health evaluation. His doctor asked him to get an evaluation a year ago after he filled out a self-assessment on himself. He said he kept calling for a referral, and other excuses but I finally found out he never called the center. He has called or been called the police 10 times for things that set him off and this is in the last 2 weeks. I currently have been staying with a friend because I do not feel safe around him. I suffer from depression and take medication, so it is not a healthy environment. I am angry that he is this way, I am mad at myself for not seeing, hurt, sad, and all emotions but I still love him and I feel that getting him help is the best thing I can do. I have engaged others to try to talk to him, reason with him, but he only responds to very monotone, loving advice. At this time, I wish I could provide that to him, but he sees me as the enemy because I called the police (hoping they would see he needed immediate help). The police can do nothing until he tries to hurt himself of me. He has been taking money out of the account and left the balance at 0.00. I did open up another account so I can pay my bills and he has not access. I pray by the Grace of God that I get assistance with getting him into a clinic. I called a Crisis Center and they are still trying to get an appointment. This was yesterday and still waiting. I am trying to stay strong.