Hello Garza: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral. I'm sorry you are caught in such a difficult situation. One additional forum, here on PC, that may be of interest to you would be the partners of people & caregivers forum. Here's a link:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/part...ivers-support/

And then, since you mentioned depression is something you struggle with, you may find the depression forum to be of interest:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/depression/

Here are links to 10 articles, from PsychCentral's archives. The first 3 talk about denial & how to persuade a loved one to seek professional help. The fourth talks about how to help a loved one who has bipolar disorder to cope. The rest offer tips on managing depression day-to-day:

Denial is a Powerful Impediment to Treatment

How to Persuade Your Loved One to Seek Professional Help

11 Ways to Help a Loved One in Denial

https://psychcentral.com/blog/8-ways...oved-one-cope/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/6-step...ng-depression/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/10-thi...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/blog/9-step...turally/?all=1

https://psychcentral.com/blog/7-ways...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/blog/7-more...nd-medication/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/9-ways...ve-depression/

There is also a book that may be of interest I might mention to you. It's titled: I'm Not Sick, I Don't Need Help. There is a video on YouTube of the author speaking on this subject. Here's a link to that YouTube video:



I hope you find PC to be of benefit.