I am coping a bit better,next three days I will be getting more rest.It has been decided between my sister and I that we will leave mum's carers to look after her so I won't be taking food to her or visiting so often.Recently I had been visiting twice a week and ended up being there when carers were due and ended up doing their job,which was exhausting for me and then I couldn't do my own chores.Now I will go back to visiting once a fortnight like I did before mum went to hospital.I will be able to cope much better then.