Update:

Not really sure in the point of this post except maybe posting it will help clear my head...I'm a bit pneumonic atm and can't think straight as it is.

Anyway, turns out for the minute my sis is not the least bit concerned about what my physical/ mental health probs are. She just wants me to show up asap to give her back-up and support coz she's having serious D.V.probs.

Ok, I have ptsd, agoraphobia and a history as a D.V. victim myself....am I being selfish in telling her that I'll come visit but I have to stay in a hotel rather than her house coz this D.V. stuff might just freak me out??? I mean I'm dealing with the police myself just now to get a jerk stalker off my back, do I really need her begging me to go up there and be her back-up?...or am I just being a selfish wotsit?

If anybody thinks I'm just being selfish, please feel free to jump in and say.