My son is heavily into video games and I am so not a gamer but I still converse with him about them and ask questions so I can learn. I even play some games with him even though I am horrible at them, lol. He takes pity of me and tries to find games I can play because he wants to hang out with Mommy. I bet your daughter would do the same and save the harder ones for Daddy like my son does....our kids are about the same age and sound similar in many ways. They really just want someone to be interested in them and what they are doing. Showing that interest goes a long way even if we have to fake it, lol.