Because I myself stated I had alters...when we were discussing age, and lee stated she was lee. They do that, to inform people...Instead of taking into consideration of that though, they made rude remarks about it. Such as " 15, 17, 20...That's so textbook " and " Hi youngun " just because I asked about their age. If someone feels uncomfortable telling they could just say I'd rather not tell, like with name...if they don't want to tell, they don't have to. It's not appropriate to go and make rude offensive comments about things though... v_v