I think finding a place where one's intelligence is valued & RESPECTED is actually the key....because when others accept us it is easier to accept ourselves (even if se should accept ourselves no matter what)

Seesaw.....how sad to be treated that way. I was not encouraged at home but not really discouraged either....only encouragement I did get was in school. Though I had to work harder than most others who were excelling also.

I am glad there are some work places that were like my experience....it is sad that other places aren't like that.