Thanks for your reply seeker. Im very tired but have been thinking that I'm really not sure where to begin. I know that she is faster than me mentally. Also I don't want to be in the position of having to explain myself again because it seems to be a way of her getting more control by having more personal information about me, if that makes sense.

Edit:I guess what I'm trying to say is that I know I need to plan what to say but I'm struggling to know where to begin because part of me would rather walk away because of the above.