She didn't ' lead him on '. That is very common and dangerous talk. It's saying that if a woman or girl does xyz, then she should accept that the man or boy wants abc because of it. It says that if bad things happen, she ' should have known it would; that she has only herself to blame. It's as old as time.

S4ndm4n2006, you mentioned only the holding hands, and none of the scary and awful s**t he was doing. Did you gloss over all that ?

Katie97, block him and also block anyone who's friends with him. Do not engage any more with this unstable person. He sounds very dangerous. Some might think that is exaggerating, but there are too many stories like this that don't end well. Be safe.