It’s not her job or any of her business to push you, guilt you, or bully you. Don’t let her drive you away from a place you are enjoying and feel good in.

You can keep a distance from her, not give her information to throw in your face, not indulge in conversation with her about these topics, tell her to back off and how you do you and she should do her.

She may think she is helping you, but she’s just bullying you.