My grandma had an expression, “Even a cat can make trouble”. My thoughts on your OP, before anyone else responded were that it’s just a cat, he may have liked that it was the same name as the former cat because it reminds him of the past, but the ex is deceased, she’s not coming back, so let him have (pun intended) the familiar.
If he obviously pines for the ex and constantly makes you feel inferior, that’s something to take issue with. But who cares what he calls the cat?
It didn’t cross my mind that it was disrespectful in any way to you.
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