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Old Sep 21, 2018, 09:40 AM
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Originally Posted by ohmydaisy View Post
I get ya. I appreciate the honesty that I have with him. Sometimes it's hard though. I wish there wasn't a deceased ex. There are unresolved feelings around all of that and if I'm being honest, it makes me insecure.


I think what would have been nice from him is not that he just shared but that but expressed some empathy for how it made you feel, instead of asking if you thought it was weird, being up front and saying something to show his understanding that he knew it might be a contentious thing.

I would honestly do what you can to show your appreciation that he was honest with you but that it would be nice if it were expressed more compassionately sometimes.

Hope this helps.
Thanks for this!
eskielover