I tell him how I feel and he either ignores it or pushes me until I lose my temper, and become the bad guy. I feel he doesn't like me because when I do ask for things like affection or intamcy he plays on his phone or conviently "forgets" I said anything. He doesn't take the time to understand what I am trying to say, and when I do my best to try and make him feel heard (the idea being treat others how you want to be treated) it some how comes back on me and makes me the villan again. He is now blaming me for running the whole weekend for naming I just want to spend time with him doing something to make him happy and he wants to go out and do something. It feels the something matters more than me.