Thanks for the responses above.

You make a realistic point, eskie. Just getting through their visit wore me out. I am not a young woman. Getting him to a destination thousands of miles away and keeping him clean with no handicap-accessible bathroom could be quite an undertaking. These folk like to party full-tilt boggie. I'll be surrounded by people there, but it will be lonely for me. They have no interest in conversing with me, or getting to know me. I have no interest in their manner of socialising. It's all uproarious laughter over one line jokes. That's all they know how to do. Actually, they bore me to death.

I feel a bit better tonight. My s/o was nicer today