Help me think this through..

A couple of weeks ago found out my dad joined fb. Never friended memory anything. Just the kind of crappy relationship we have. Apparently he has moved back to the area a couple of months ago and I had no clue. He has seen all my siblings and their kids.

Today, I decide to send him a message on fb. We weren’t friends at the time, but figured he would get the message regardless. Three hours I sent the message my dad friends me on fb. So, I was expecting for him to respond back to my message. But- it still days sent.. and not delivered or seen. He has been on fb multiple times since then. My guess is he doesn’t have Facebook messenger and doesn’t check fb in a desktop computer so he hasn’t seen the message.

The only reason I accepted his friend request was to ensure my message didn’t go to his junk folder. I have been thinking about writing on his fb wall to tell him to check his messages. But- is that weird. I am only writing on his wall so he will go read a message that finally tells him how I feel about our relationship and is quiet harsh. Or do I leave it alone and hope he stumbles across the message and block him now as opposed to waiting until after I am sure he has read the message. To me, I wrote the message for him to know what he has done to me. Just sending it is not enough. I need him to read it!!