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Well ok I did sign up on Adult Friend Finder and well my old boarderline trait of getting what I need from men has come back in full force. I have been flirting with him for days now and I agreed to meet him in a public place Friday before I decide to go have sex with him. I have not thought about T at all. I almost feel normal from the high I am getting from this. I think I might talk to T about this I am not sure because this person I have never met, is having a huge pull on me and I am becoming very obsessive.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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