i've just lightly gone into it with her. i've not talked with her much since she's been with her mother. they didn't allow it.

i told her there's nothing she could tell me that i wouldn't understand because i've gone thruogh it more than likely. my father, her grandfather, has quite the rep, so she already knows that we all had it rough with him. i told her that i lived in fear and know what it's like to have bad ppls in family...general things.

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