Can you get the free health insurance through Obamacare? You can get free therapy that way. I have. Maybe you can even get free couples counseling. It sounds almost impossible if she says she doesn’t love you anymore. It could be the depression talking though. It’s horrible to me what she’s doing to the children. That’s not fair or right to them. They’re growing up with neglect from one parent. That will mess them up psychologically. It has repercussions. She’s being very selfish but depression does that to some people. What a shame she regrets it. I feel very bad for your kids. I’m sorry for your pain. Therapy is really the only way or a separation.