What does she try to provide that makes you happy? I ask because from what's written it sounds like a demand and expectation upon you without reciprocity?

It can be difficult no doubt, being out of work and in between insurance. Is she craving to get back to therapy? Does your state offer services or healthcare with the unemployment insurance? There's also self help and group type of support out there if that's what's desired. What about through your local NAMI as a resource?

It's truly too bad that she says she regrets ever having children. Parenting is a struggle some days. Did she ever express hesitation before having the first child? My community offers a Parent's Resource Center. They offer a variety of services from healthcare to job searches to daycare referals, etc.