It takes as long as it takes, as my t is fond of saying. It has taken me almost 7 years of therapy to finally come home to myself and start speaking my truth. It takes awhile to rebuild a foundation when you have to still live in the house. I know that sounds a little una-ish, but... I hope that makes sense outside of my own head.....

I have a lot of respect for your Lemoncake and for so many others here. We are getting there, all of us, in our own time.