My T knows that honesty is a big thing for me and while I may omit some things I will always be honest to a fault. I never volunteer SI but if he asks I will say yes. I absolutely hates when he keeps digging for more info and I try to be as vague as possible because I know this questioning can go on all session. I know he worries about me because of this. As soon as I make a deal with him and give him my word for a select amount of time he will usually drop it. He still does not know everything though and probably never will.

It sounds like you want them to know to a certain extent. I would suggest you be open and honest to the degree you are comfortable with. Sometimes they really can help and ease your pain a bit by guiding you through the lava rivers of hell. Why not give it a shot. I know most people are not like me so I hope you can find some peace by sharing.