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Originally Posted by here today
I tend to agree, though I had lots of bad experiences in therapy with therapists not understanding those "parts" and me not understanding their reactions to them.
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It could be not understanding, or it could be transference or the Ts own triggers. But sometimes I think those who are the loudest when it comes to scolding or not tolerating others are also those most disconnected from their own anger, shadow parts, or disavowed or split off parts, such as inadequacies, repressed impulses, or shame. Interestingly, you can even see the patterns...